Making Love: Reaching Your Sexual Potential
David Yarian, Ph.D.

I'm a sex therapist and a tantric sexuality educator. People who come to me with sexual problems are often asking that I help them make some symptom - like premature ejaculation or low desire or difficulty with having an orgasm - "go away."

While focusing on the symptom is important, for a more integral sense of sexual health I want to help them have a larger vision of what is sexually possible . . . read more»

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The Joy of Making Love

Welcome to Joy of Making Love!

We’ve assembled here a wealth of resources for your erotic enjoyment and exploration.

We believe great lovers are made, not born – we learn how to make love, and continue our erotic learning and growth throughout our lives. Dr. David Schnarch, author of Passionate Marriage, says that as we mature we become better lovers. The athleticism of which we were capable at twenty may fade over time, but our maturing process brings us more patience, enhanced creativity, and a greater ability to tolerate the powerful physical and emotional intensities of ecstatic lovemaking.

Joy of Making Love is a treasure house of the very best in erotic art, information and education. Here you can wander the aisles of a virtual bookstore filled with :

erotic memoirs and biographies;
books on scientific research on sexuality;

books on the manifold joys of making love, including explorations of the farther reaches of human sexuality;

manuals of sexual technique;
beautiful books on erotic art, erotic film, erotic sculpture, erotic photography;
literary erotica, including erotic fiction, erotic poetry, erotic graphic novels and comics, and classics of erotica;
thought-provoking books focusing on the intricacies of intimate relationships, whether straight or gay, vanilla, swinging, polyamorous, or kinky;
sacred sexuality texts, both ancient and modern, including Tantra, Tao sex, Kama Sutra, and sex magic;
books on eroticism and desire;
guides to sexual fitness;
books exploring sexuality as a medium of healing, including healing from sexual abuse;
erotic education and guidance for both men and women;
great sex education videos;
erotic music for lovers; and
Tantric and other sexual meditation practices.

We hope you’ll browse our carefully selected recommendations to further your erotic explorations. Each book, video or CD has a brief review describing it, as well as a link to Amazon where you can learn even more.

Please contact us with any questions, or to let us know about a great book, video or other resource we’ve overlooked. We’d love to hear from you!

Please note: This site is intended for adults, and by continuing to browse it you are certifying that you are over the age of 18.